6 Knee-Jerk Reactions That Never Pay Off

  1. Give up before you even try.

  2. Run from a challenge.  Seek the easy road.

  3. Seek the middle of the crowd.  Be safe!

  4. Be quick to suggest it’s not your fault or your responsibility.

  5. Do ONLY what is asked, not one thing more.

  6. Don’t take action.

At some point we have all fallen into the trap of one of these knee-jerk reactions, and they may seem to work for a time. But the truth is, they cause us to live safer and closer to home.

Even when the desires of our hearts are to be brave and courageous, these pitfalls keep us from achieving greatness.

A Different Option

So if you want to make a difference. . .

If you want to take the ordinary and make it extraordinary. . .

You feel the urge to make a move from “whatever” to “whatever it takes.”

Then.... Be open to a challenge. Just because it’s hard, doesn’t mean you’re headed in the wrong direction.

Dare to be out front, on the side, even in the rear. Crowds are not necessarily a sign that you are headed in the right direction.

Accept responsibility. It may not all be your fault, but you had some part to play. Willingly do more, give more, offer more than what is asked.

Do something!

 

A Simple Rule That Can Impact Your Entire Day

Imagine this scenario.

Your head finally graces the pillow.  It is with deep satisfaction that you welcome sweet sleep.

But what is that noise you hear? .........It is the sound of little feet padding towards you. It is your sweet, well rested child.  Coming in to greet you for the day. "Good morning mommie!"

How do you respond? If you are like me in the past, you groan, whine, and scowl.  Your response is less than friendly.  “Ugh, what time is it?"  "It can't be time for you to be up!" 

The message was loud and clear.  I am not happy to see you. Shamefully, this was my routine for a long time. The first glimpse my children got of me each morning, was grumpy and irritated.

But one wonderful morning I had a powerful moment. I had an insight into what my children experienced each morning.  I took the time to see the world through their eyes. It was not a pretty sight. I didn’t want my children to dread waking me. I didn’t want them to deal with my bad attitude every morning.  

So I made a change. I established a new rule.

The Wake Up Happy Rule

It is simple. Wake up happy- every morning!

When I wake in the morning, before I am fully alert-  I smile! That’s what happy people do, right !?! 

Remember the song, “….if you’re happy and you know it, then your face should surely show it!” I encourage you. 

If your recognize that you are less than pleasant in the morning.  Purpose in your heart to change, starting today!

Make a decision that you have had your last grumpy morning.

No  more groaning allowed. Instead, fill the room, fill your home with happy, cheery, joyous “Good Morning” greetings.

This is not a “fake it ’til you make it” idea. I don’t believe that you need to fake happiness. I believe that happiness is already within you, it is a part of who you are and how you were created.

Free yourself to be happy. Open your eyes each morning with happiness and joy as your focus. I think that you will find that the first moments of your morning have a way of creating a theme that impacts your entire day!

Will you try it? I would love to hear about your experience!

A Powerful Moment

A Powerful Moment is:

- a moment of genuine connection between two people.

- an opportunity to share, encourage, and uplift someone.

- a sense of connection, understanding, feeling heard/ validated.

- an insight.

Seeing things with a fresh perspective.

On any given day we are surrounded.  Surrounded with so many opportunities to connect with the people who cross our path each day.

We have so many moments to see from a fresh perspective.   Moments when we can enter in.  Share in someone else’s life for just a moment.   On purpose we can leave them better than we found them.

I have worked toward living this way for years. I am very intentional about affecting people’s lives. The time I spend with someone, I put a lot of energy into ensuring that our time together leaves a powerful mark on their life.  In turn our time together tends to affect my own life in ways I could not have imagined.

I invite you to join me.

If each of us were to adopt the same perspective. If we were to envision that not one single person that crosses our path is by accident.

How would that change the way that we interact with them? Maybe we would no longer see people as obstacles in our journey, but as an important part of our journey.

Join me in this experience.  Daily you can participate in creating A Powerful Moment in your life by first touching the life of the person right in front of you.

What does A Powerful Moment require?

- intention

This will not happen by accident. You will have to purpose to be a part of this opportunity and be willing to take action.

- availability

If you are busy, distracted, or doubtful the moment will pass you by. Your attention must turn from an inward focus to outward.

- listening, not just hearing

With so much noise, it is easy to adopt the habit of hearing without listening. You may find yourself hearing what someone says without truly engaging in listening. Listening, is critical to establishing a moment full of power.

- seeing with God’s eyes, looking beyond people’s outer expression to who they really are.

People’s facades can be distracting ,even intimidating, but if you are willing to look beyond what you see. If you are willing to believe that they are right here right now for a divine purpose. You will find ways to connect with them no matter what they look like or how they seem. So, who’s with me?

Are you open to creating A Powerful Moment today?